Friday, March 13, 2009

You can do it!

This past week has been trying on everyone in portable 4B. I've had so many kids need me to be there for them emotionally. Forget the academics, they needed a self-esteem boost. I've never been around so many kids who were so unsure of themselves in all aspects of their lives.

I had one kid write a whole page worth of, "I'm a failure and worthless to everyone." Another continue to say, "I suck! I hate myself." And then there was one who continued to bang and throw things because he would get upset with himself.

So, what to do with these kids...??? I found myself keep repeating the phrase, "I see how hard you are working. Keep it up and know that I believe in you. I need you to believe in you too." I've never given so much verbal praise in such a short amount of time. I know that verbal praise is a necessity in life, however, I was drained of it this week. I couldn't bring myself to give one more, "you can do it!" I need these kids to come back from Spring Break with a renewed confidence and energy to tackle the remainder of the year. I need them to do that so that I can fulfill my end of the deal and teach them something, rather than be sole emotional supporter...although that is what I will do if needed.

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